Welcome Frugal Friday readers!I'm buried under papers that need to be graded, so I'm rerunning some of my best work! Originally published in January of this year, I explore challenging my assumptions about what stores are cheapest. Enjoy!Gentle readers, I am a recovering
Wal-Mart addict.
I used to shop for nearly everything at
Wal-Mart. When my husband and I got married, I would peruse the sale fliers from other stores and occasionally go pick up a particularly good buy, but my general routine was to hit up
Wal-Mart once a week for our grocery needs. I’
ve never been a fan of the place. The vastness of the store, the constant crowds no matter what time you go, the fact that only three checkout lanes have cashiers…it drove me nuts. But I went. Our first few years of marriage, we were both grad students with part time jobs. Our combined income was under the 20,000 mark, and we still had to buy books, keep the apartment heated, and manage to feed ourselves relatively healthy foods. Plus the gas in our limping along cars- I commuted 40 miles both way Monday-Friday- plus health insurance, supplies, and savings. I had to shop at
Wal-Mart. They were the cheapest.
When I shopped at
Wal-Mart, I spent about 55 dollars a week, maybe 65 if we needed cleaning supplies or laundry detergent. Every week I would vow to get our grocery bill lower. I made menus and tried to plan around what we had. The 55 dollars, while it fed us pretty well for a week, did not seem to stock our pantry. But what could I do? Besides a few deals I would find after glancing at the sale fliers,
Wal-Mart was so cheap. In my mind, we simply could not afford not to go to
Wal-Mart.
I vowed that when my husband had a job in his generally well paying field, I was never going to set foot over the
Wal-Mart threshold unless I absolutely had to. When we moved to Wichita, my No More
Wal-Mart dreams came true!
Something funny happened when I stopped going to
Wal-Mart. My grocery bill went down. Not just a little bit-
drastically. Part of it was that I was moving more to the pantry method of cooking, where I stock up on deals and plan my meals around that. But I had been doing that before. There just had not been a pantry as nicely stocked.
I think that
Wal-Mart’s supposed low, low prices are pounded into our heads. I know a lot of people who say that they can’t get anything cheaper than they can at
Wal-Mart or Sam’s…but like I did in college, they rarely, if ever, step into a non
Wal-Mart store. When you repeat anything over and over, you can start to believe it, regardless of what is actually true. I had been repeating “I hate
Wal-Mart, but they are cheaper than anywhere else” over and over, without really challenging my mantra. I thought they were cheaper, but I rarely challenged their prices. I just assumed that it was cheaper.
When I stopped going to
Wal-Mart, I noticed that their prices are not always as great as I thought they were. When I started combining loss leader sales with coupons, I found that I was spending far less on name brand items than I spent on the
Wal-Mart generics. I noticed manager markdowns that I never saw at
Wal-Mart. While
Wal-Mart does match prices on fliers, I have never seen
ten cent markdown milk. I've never seen a
Wal-Mart that doubles coupons. It does take a little time to match coupons to sales and manager's specials, but
once I learned how and got organized, I found I was spending far less time doing that than I was waiting in line at one of
Wal-Mart’s three open registers.
I still occasionally drop into
Wal-Mart, but it’s maybe twice a year now, instead of once a week. I don’t miss fighting the crazy parking lot, the loud,
oversized store, and the endless waits. And I spend 20-40 dollars a week now for a LOT MORE food than I ever got at
Wal-Mart. This is not to say that your family will save a ton of money like mine has by not going to
Wal-Mart. It may not. I challenge you challenge your assumptions, consider sales, consider coupons, consider other options.
What assumptions have you challenged in your frugal journey? What new things did you learn? I’d love to hear from you! Leave a comment or feel free to e-mail me at Frugal.Homemaker.Plus (at) gmail.com